Fix NIP-09 deletion for parameterized replaceable events (NIP-33)

Fixed bug where deleting a parameterized replaceable event (e.g., kind 31922)
using an 'a' tag would incorrectly delete ALL events of that kind instead of
just the specific event with the matching d-tag.

**Root Cause:**
NostrFilter's 'd' field uses a Pydantic Field alias "#d". When creating a filter
with `NostrFilter(d=[value])`, Pydantic ignores it because the parameter name
doesn't match the alias.

**Fix:**
Changed filter creation to use the alias:
```python
NostrFilter(authors=[...], kinds=[...], **{"#d": [d_tag]})
```

**Testing:**
- Created two tasks with different d-tags
- Deleted only one task
- Verified only the specified task was marked as deleted in the database
- Confirmed the other task remained unaffected

This ensures proper NIP-09 deletion behavior for NIP-33 parameterized
replaceable events using 'a' tag format (kind:pubkey:d-identifier).

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

relay/client_connection.py

@@ -235,15 +235,20 @@ class NostrClientConnection:
                         kind = int(kind_str)
                         # Only delete if the address pubkey matches the deletion event author
                         if addr_pubkey == event.pubkey:
+                            # NOTE: Use "#d" alias, not "d" directly (Pydantic Field alias)
                             nostr_filter = NostrFilter(
                                 authors=[addr_pubkey],
                                 kinds=[kind],
-                                d=[d_tag]
+                                **{"#d": [d_tag]}  # Use alias to set d field
                             )
                             events_to_delete = await get_events(self.relay_id, nostr_filter, False)
                             ids_to_delete.extend([e.id for e in events_to_delete if not e.is_delete_event])
+                        else:
+                            logger.warning(f"Deletion request pubkey mismatch: {addr_pubkey} != {event.pubkey}")
                     except ValueError:
                         logger.warning(f"Invalid kind in address: {addr}")
+                else:
+                    logger.warning(f"Invalid address format (expected kind:pubkey:d-tag): {addr}")
 
         # Only mark events as deleted if we found specific IDs
         if ids_to_delete: